My Popsicle Story
Like many I played little league baseball starting at the age of five. This was real baseball as T-Ball had yet to arrive on the scene. It was a different time, five and six year olds playing fast pitch baseball, without helmets, under the watchful eye of someone's Dad. We loved playing and spent the weeks in early spring wondering about line ups , cap color and other critical issues. I also recall that some of the guys needed to wait until an older brother finished a game to have access to the family mitt.
Before our first real game the coach shared that he didn't really like the opposing coach and offered to buy everyone a post game Popsicle , if of course we won. We played hard won the game and gleefully strutted to the village carry-out for the reward. Just a Popsicle but somehow very special.
The next game offered another opportunity to shine , we were ready for action, played hard but lost. After the game one of our players asked if we were going to go for Popsicles. Without hesitation, the coach simply asked; " Did we win"? We knew instantly that it was a dumb question. For me a life lesson in the making. Sometimes trying hard isn't enough to win. Reworking a model or plan that takes a product or service to the next level is always the answer. We're fortunate at Allen Associates to work with great business leaders that understand a loss (which never feels good) should lead the organization to push the creative and expand competitive boundaries. Maybe dare I question ... a loss shouldn't feel good? By contrast winning ... really winning, is fun.
Time will tell but the everybody-wins-a-trophy approach may not be the answer long term. And seriously, how could you possibly argue logic with this rag- tag band of future leaders ?
